{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Simplify","provider_url":"https:\/\/forwardforty.com\/simplify","author_name":"Judette Coward","author_url":"https:\/\/forwardforty.com\/simplify\/author\/judette-coward\/","title":"I Use Social Media For This","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"09cjsnpSi1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/forwardforty.com\/simplify\/i-use-social-media-for-this\/\">I Use Social Media For This<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/forwardforty.com\/simplify\/i-use-social-media-for-this\/embed\/#?secret=09cjsnpSi1\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;I Use Social Media For This&#8221; &#8212; Simplify\" data-secret=\"09cjsnpSi1\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script>\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/forwardforty.com\/simplify\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n<\/script>\n","description":"Do you think social media is a real place? I mean how do you keep up with the ______( the need to be real and and the pressure of being PERFECT?) How do you deal with wanting to edit and have a curated look? Is it CHALLENGING to be authentic online? As a small biz owner _____(social media is crucial for my success\/ showing up on my platforms brings me new business\/ is overwhelming but I do it anyway)  And whether the sqaure grids we build our businesses on are real or not, I _____(get to decide what aspects of my world and work I share\/ I don't ever worry about keeping up with the Jones' \/ I tuck away my overwhelm and I try to make it work for my small business). So, for me, here\u2019s the thing about being authentic on social media,____ (I can't control how people see my success, I have little control of how I'm perceived, I dont worry much about people judging me or my work). Every space has its set of unwritten rules, and I have very little say on those rules but I can put in the time showing up, taking people behind the scenes, working hard to present the real me so I connect with my followers and they connect with me.  So how do YOU deal with the pressure to be PERFECT on social media? I can't wait to go back and forth with you in the comments. I learn so much from you in the comments.","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/forwardforty.com\/simplify\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/footerline-2.jpg"}