August 2021

We Can Help You

Ready to take the next step in your journey to becoming __________ (what your product or service helps your Ideal Client with (a more confident solo hiker/a freelance writer/etc.)]?

See what __________ [name of a customer or client] had to say: __________ [their testimonial/product review/etc.]. Want the same kind of results but not sure where to start? [I/We] got you covered.

Simply follow in __________ [name of your customer or client]’s footsteps by visiting [yourwebsite.com/ calling/sending me a DM at….]

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Be Our Guest

We don’t know who needs to hear this, but you need pursue the things that make you happy and feel good about life.

Want that slice of pineapple upside down cake? Forget the calories for just one day, and eat it. Want to take that trip? Then plan, save and go.
This advice applies to the practicalities of your life too.

You wish __________ [a benefit of your product or service eg. you could let go of the never-ending stress around cleaning your home)]? Be our guest!

__________ [Call to Action (Book our deep cleaning service via the link in our bio)] and let us help make you feel good about the ___________( eg: the place you call home/ or include any other benefit to your dream customer from the work you do)

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I Use Social Media For This

Do you think social media is a real place? I mean how do you keep up with the ______( the need to be real and and the pressure of being PERFECT?) How do you deal with wanting to edit and have a curated look?

Is it CHALLENGING to be authentic online?

As a small biz owner _____(social media is crucial for my success/ showing up on my platforms brings me new business/ is overwhelming but I do it anyway)

And whether the sqaure grids we build our businesses on are real or not, I _____(get to decide what aspects of my world and work I share/ I don’t ever worry about keeping up with the Jones’ / I tuck away my overwhelm and I try to make it work for my small business).

So, for me, here’s the thing about being authentic on social media,____ (I can’t control how people see my success, I have little control of how I’m perceived, I dont worry much about people judging me or my work).

Every space has its set of unwritten rules, and I have very little say on those rules but I can put in the time showing up, taking people behind the scenes, working hard to present the real me so I connect with my followers and they connect with me.

So how do YOU deal with the pressure to be PERFECT on social media? I can’t wait to go back and forth with you in the comments. I learn so much from you in the comments.

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My New Work Area

Woo Hoo, I did it! Sure it was because of the pandemic but how is this for a silver lining?
After (name years) of working for myself, I finally (created/ designed / redecorated) a lovely work from home spot in (state the area in your home).
It’s easy to just be so buried in the work and make any area do but I love my _____ (new (office / space/ area /corner)
All I need now is (state another accessory) and I’m done.
What do you think of my (new digs /cozy work space / studio / corner where I work).

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Mistakes Can Take You Places

Nothing comes easy. Can I have an AMEN if you’re a small business owner and know this to be the truth?

For instance,. I must have _____________ [rewritten the script for my latest online course at least 100 times / thrown out a gazillion designs before being comfortable with my collection / sent a thousand emails and business proposals to get funding for my venture.].

Sometimes we have to do things over and over again to get something right and I can’t begin to tell you how many minutes have slipped away from me just by sitting still in the learning phase.

At the same time—ultimately—I (state your accomplishment/ got it done, right?)

So, when the mistakes I make seek to derail me, I just keep on creating.

Now I’m happy to say ____________ (my course is ready to be launched / the collection is sold out and I’m working on my second / I got the investment and my dream is about to come to life /etc.)

So don’t go knocking yourself out when things aren’t perfect the first time around. Once you learn from the process, those mistakes can take you places you need to go.

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New Work

I CANT BELIEVE IT!

I’m _____{ state your accomplishment/ new work)!!!!!! It’s (state day and time of your gig/sales/ live event/new contract start date etc)

I’m so excited to do this thing that ____(say benefits to customers). I’ve been working so hard on ______( say what you did to secure this new work).

Huge thanks to (state mentor/ person who helped /team) for (say what he/she did).

Also love to _____ (acknowledge another person who helped) for ______( providing emotional support / getting me to the finish line/ opening a door that had been closed.)

I have the best support system in the world. 🌎🌍🌏

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Balance

Juggling a heap of things all at the same time is my thing…until it’s not. 🙃

I ( hit that point yesterday /reached a low last week/ felt off for the past month).

Here’s how it all rolled out.

______( I missed calls and now I have to play catch up to return/ an inbox that actually reads 50 unread emails” which actually feels like an ominous sign/ my hair looks and feels like the stress I feel plus the world feels heavy.

It feels like you’ve got it together until you don’t. You can delay rest until you can’t.

One of the things that’s hard for me to connect with is saying no to people. Admitting that I can’t do it all, is my Achilles heel.

If you struggle _____(with saying yes all the time /not stating boundaries, know that your worth isn’t knitted to the fact that you can do it all. Or that you will always show up. Or that you can handle everything.

You still have lots to offer beyond your ability to be everything to everyone. ❤️

Does anyone else struggle with this? 👇🏼👇🏼

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Happy Birthday To Me

Hey, it’s my birthday! We’re going to party like it’s my birthday.

Celebration songs aside friends, as I sit here on the verge of (state your age) I feel more Iike myself than ever before.

I feel good about who I am.

I feel settled _____ ( in my skin, in my truth, with my identity)

I feel confident in my core values and all the moments that make my story_____ (so complex/ unique/ special).

I don’t have it all figured out but yet I feel so free

______(Maybe it’s age, maybe it’s wisdom/ hindsight) but I know that whatever I face, I have it in me to be able to get through whatever comes next.

The easing of constantly stressing about what’s around the corner, and the lessening of my anxiety about what success looks like tomorrow is a beautiful thing to feel.

I could’ve never imagined that my (30s/40s/50/60s ) could be what my younger self needed to be and yet here I am

To all the young ones that follow me, If you’re stressed about what’s to come, know it gets better.

And if you’re as old and feeling as beautiful as I am today…can I get an amen? 🙏🏻❤️

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Sweeter than Watermelon

What would you say if I told you I could offer you something sweeter than these watermelon slices?
Guess what, I CAN!
To each of my clients, I always make ___________ [(state it here.) available and what’s more, ____________ (there’s a 60-day satisfaction guarantee/shipping is always complementary/ I give you a free consultation for 20 minutes etc.)!
Am I crazy??? No, my friend. How can I sweeten your day?

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